Lately I have heard a lot of women
say that men struggle more with moving on. You always see situations where the
man just won’t let go no matter how hard the woman tries to tell him it’s over.
It could be years since the breakup, and that man is still trying to get her
back and make something happen.
Of course, we see women struggle too
…but on the surface they seem to reach a point where they have moved on a lot
quicker, well that is what many believe. They shed plenty of tears and
experienced many sleepless nights. But now they appear to have accepted that
it’s over. However, I don’t believe women recover faster than men. I also don’t
believe men are better at moving on either. There are a lot of
misunderstandings that lead to a belief that one moves on faster than the
other, but lets take a deeper look.
Many women eventually learn the
skill of “managing their emotions”. They have enough experiences of being
emotionally vulnerable that they understand how to deal with them (in a way
that they are “comfortable” with). They also learn how to take greater control
by not putting themselves in emotionally vulnerable positions.
